Up to the evening yesterday when the students, 9.12 million, stepped out of the sites, it seemed all had been over. But in fact they must face another new beginning of a series of issue.
Most of the students would like to slip all books they had read to pieces, or sell them out as soon as possible. In their mind the books bring them the nightmare, they even think the books are the nightmare, once they slip up or sell out them, they can get rid of the serious nightmare and breath the fresh freely as possible as they can.
But the fact is, from the minute of finishing the examination to the date of publishing the score they have to bear a lot of pressure. They feel anxious, scared of anything. They hate to meet relations, friends, even they dislike to talk anything about the examination with the parents. They become sensitive to anything or any question related to the examination.
The above just refers to the students. In fact, there are some problems with their parents and their families. Before the examination anything must obey to the examination, in other word, the examination forces themselves to keep harmony. For example, if the family happed a worse disaster, they all keep it as confidential to the students, even the closest relations were dead, they never tell the students what had happed until they finish the examination. And There have been a serious gap between the parents, and the gap must lead to break the marriage, "divorce" I mean, but they must keep the harmony in the family as possible as they can not to affect the students' emotions. In consequence, the students will have to bear many problems from the changed or changing family and themselves.
And the official data show it is at the high divorce rate after the college entrance examination....
But I hope all families can be happy together and the students can become stronger to face up to anything what will happen and had happened.
Now it is raining, please enjoy the cool weather, forget all things happened in the examination, breath the fresh, keep inner peace, you have made your dreams come true. Yes, I believe.
My Best wished to all students; And thanks to all parents for their selfless love.
Most of the students would like to slip all books they had read to pieces, or sell them out as soon as possible. In their mind the books bring them the nightmare, they even think the books are the nightmare, once they slip up or sell out them, they can get rid of the serious nightmare and breath the fresh freely as possible as they can.
But the fact is, from the minute of finishing the examination to the date of publishing the score they have to bear a lot of pressure. They feel anxious, scared of anything. They hate to meet relations, friends, even they dislike to talk anything about the examination with the parents. They become sensitive to anything or any question related to the examination.
The above just refers to the students. In fact, there are some problems with their parents and their families. Before the examination anything must obey to the examination, in other word, the examination forces themselves to keep harmony. For example, if the family happed a worse disaster, they all keep it as confidential to the students, even the closest relations were dead, they never tell the students what had happed until they finish the examination. And There have been a serious gap between the parents, and the gap must lead to break the marriage, "divorce" I mean, but they must keep the harmony in the family as possible as they can not to affect the students' emotions. In consequence, the students will have to bear many problems from the changed or changing family and themselves.
And the official data show it is at the high divorce rate after the college entrance examination....
But I hope all families can be happy together and the students can become stronger to face up to anything what will happen and had happened.
Now it is raining, please enjoy the cool weather, forget all things happened in the examination, breath the fresh, keep inner peace, you have made your dreams come true. Yes, I believe.
My Best wished to all students; And thanks to all parents for their selfless love.
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